The solution is loud and clear here (if you really read it)

The solution is STOP complaining, STOP justifying and STOP blaming.

You can still get attention by NOT being a victim and I’m talking about quality attention here.

Successful people like Bill Gates, Donald Trumps and Steve Jobs get lots of attention too and yet they are not a victim.

so what do we do about it??? elaborating on the victim mentallity is just gona cause us to manifest it more in our lives!!!

You see, Im complaining, which is a clear sign of having a victim mentality. Thats cause I have a hardcore victim mentally. Ive tried stopping it, but Im addicted to attention, sympathy, and empathy, and so I just go back to being a victim. I need a healthier way to get attention, sympathy, and empathy!!!

how do I do that, I need to get out of shit victim menatllity!! please!

I notice that too.

Perhaps women need some “verification” or approval from others to make them feel okay.

Just my guess.

Thanks for sharing.

It’s really interesting that when we women need to change an appointment or cancel it, we go into detail about ‘why’.

For example: “something unexpected came up”; “the children have an after school activity”, etc, etc

Whereas a man just says: “I’d like to change my appointment to……..”

And that’s it.

That’s at least one thing we can learn from you guys

Love it,

Cheers,

Gloria