Image by Damale’ via FlickrThe current economic situation and the environment affect many people, that their confidence level starts to drop drastically. Instead of controlling the situation, most people let the event and the environment take over them.
When you have a strong self-confidence, you are more likely to get whatever you wish for. Remember the Law of Attraction?
On the other hand, if you lack self-confidence, you begin to doubt yourself, which is equivalent to slaughtering the power of the Law of Attraction.
This article is written to rebuild the lost self-confidence.
I touched about self-confidence and how it differs from being arrogant. So, today, I’m going to share about how you can rebuild your lost self-confidence.
Self-confidence dissolves in the emotions of fear, guilt and discouragement. When you feel fear, guilt and discouragement, your confidence level dives down to the bottom.
Those emotions are the root causes of losing your self-confidence. Therefore, in order to rebuild your self-confidence, you must first eliminate your fear, guilt and discouragement.
The BIG question is how to eliminate those emotions?
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I will provide you with all the steps that you need to get rid of those feelings, BUT only if you are willing to play your part. Yes. It involves some work.
Step #1 – Feel the misery
Take a few minutes to write down how would it feel like if you have a day or two of total freedom to enjoy your MISERY.
Stop reading until you finish this exercise and start participating.
Step #2 – Be grateful
List out 10 things that you are grateful for (I do this literally everyday).
This simple exercise can change the way you feel.
Step #3 – Eliminate the fear
The only way to eliminate the fear is by facing it. Write down something that you are afraid of doing right now.
Then DO IT!
I have a lot of fears and procrastinations too. And when I catch myself having these feelings, I force myself to face them. The best thing is, once I face them, they’re gone. They are just like illusions.
Step #4 – Kill the guilt
List 10 things that you are feeling guilty of. It could be you are not making enough for your family, your broken relationship or any guilt that you have in yourself right now.
After that, I want you to write down how would you feel if there were no reason for you to feel guilty about them anymore.
How would you feel without all these loads and burdens?
Finally, list out 3 reasons why you should not feel guilty for each of these things.
Step #5 – Empower yourself
There are multiple ways that you can empower yourself. You can read motivational books, listen to empowering audio tapes and read inspiring blog posts.
I hope you have taken some actions to follow through these 5 steps and once you have done so, give yourself a pat at the back and say “Thank you.” It is very important to reward yourself for any success that you achieved.
Once you have gained back your self-confidence, get ready to attract all the things that you desire with the Law of Attraction.