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Did you learn something from the video I posted yesterday, if you missed it, here’s the link again:

How A Divorce Can Affect Your Children

Today, we’ll be discussing about divorce and its effect from the perspective from the Law of Attraction.

As I have said, the negative energy produced by a divorce may affect you negatively for the rest of your life. I’ll tell you why in a moment.

Before all, the story that I’m going share with you here is just from my personal observation and it may be different from your observation or your experience

From all the divorce stories I have heard, none of them were pleasant. So, I’ll just pick one of those stories I have heard and take it as a case study.

Let’s call this friend, Miss Blue. Since Miss Blue divorced with her husband, she had a negative impression towards male human which we call as man.

Whenever she meets or comes across to a man, be it a gentleman or other types of man she can’t help but to give each and everyone of them a bad impression.

Forget about what her husband had done and what happened to her children because that’s not the primary focus on our topic for today.

Now, let’s study Miss Blue’s case from the perspective of the Law of Attraction. Whenever she meets a man in her life, she will automatically think bad about the man (no matter who or how good he is) Guess what? Unconsciously, she sends out the negative vibration to the universe and as usual, the universe will respond to the vibration.

Whatever we think expands. So, if she keeps on thinking of bad man, she will attract more and more bad men into her life (and it happens as predicted) and she may say something like, “How true is that?”

No doubt, if you think it is, then it is.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to say that she deserves it but rather serves as a warning to all of us to be more careful of our thoughts.

This case study is just about the negative events that befall her and not yet including her children (which will be negatively affected too). Most of the time, the mother’s mindset will be hammered into the kids mind and eventually form the same believe too.

I have had a friend whose parents are divorce and currently staying with her mother, think and truly believe that all guys are bad. Her mother’s believe had infected her.

Do you think that the children will be unconsciously programmed to attract the negative stuffs too? You bet.

If you are a regular reader here, you’ll know that I always ask for your feedback. I would appreciate it if you can leave your comment to share your feelings and opinion with me. Thank you.




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    8 Comments so far

    1. Rose on February 4, 2008 5:44 am

      Hi Raymond,
      Another challenging case, I feel Miss Blue needs time to overcome her negatives impression towards men, she being hurt to a certain degree. Hey, it’s hard when it come to deal with emotion. It’s only she who can change the pattern by stop inviting the negative thought as we know how LOA works. Is this what they said time help to heal the pain. Hey, there are lot of nice men out there not all men are bad. She just block this thought due to her experienced. The children got affected coz they seen the event and think only of negative things. The above is just my opinion, got to admit this is a tough case. Thanks for sharing this article.

    2. Nicole Price on February 4, 2008 6:16 am

      At times the opposite may be true. If she is really unhappy in the marriage, then getting separated may give her a chance to start life afresh and look at the option of being with other deserving men. She may actually turn positive and happy after getting out of a bad marriage that wasn’t working and giving them both grief.

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    4. raymond on February 4, 2008 2:57 pm

      Hi Rose,

      Thanks for sharing your point of view. I had a friend who behaves like Miss Blue too because her mother keeps on hammering the idea of “men are bad” into his head when she was young.

    5. raymond on February 4, 2008 3:07 pm

      Yeah, Nicole.

      That’s one of the possibiilites too. It depends on ones perspective. :)

      Thanks for sharing.

    6. Living Rooms on February 7, 2008 11:39 am

      It is absolutely true that negativity rubs off on children. I know of this cranky, clingy kid of squabbling parents, who took a vacation to visit his grandparents. The grandparents were loving kind of people and the child blossomed instantly in the changed environment.

    7. raymond on February 9, 2008 3:00 am

      Hi Living Room,

      Thanks for sharing. That must be an amazing experience. :)

      Environment rules!

    8. Mike on September 22, 2008 6:09 pm

      Child support is very important - Kids who don’t get affection from parents will have no morals.

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