Today, I"m going to share with you about the second step of how to create the lasting changes.
If you have not read the first tip, here are the links again:
You will agree with me if I say that ones believe is very important as it shapes every thought, every action and every emotion we experienced.
Raising your standard alone is not enough if you don"t believe in your self. In another words, you limit your self-belief.
Let me give you an example
Let"s say you are not earning enough for your family. You feel guilty. You feel frustrated and you don"t want your life to be like this again. Finally, you take the action to make the biggest decision in your life. You want to create a long lasting change.
You begin to learn about raising your standard and you actually take the action to raise your standard. You no longer see yourself as a poor fellow. You begin to see yourself as a part of the rich guysâ€™ community. You begin to feel good about yourself and your financial status.
All this would not come true if you still have the self-limiting belief that contradicts with your goals. It means that you are trying to feel rich but you do not believe that you"ll be rich. It is like sabotaging yourself.
Metaphorically speaking, it"s like flooring the accelerator and the brake at the same time while driving your car. That is crazy!
You are not only wasting the gas but also will wear off your brake shoes and you go nowhere.
So, when you raise your standard, remember to eliminate your self-limiting belief at the same time.
By raising your standard and eliminating your self limiting belief is not enough. There"s still a missing piece, which is step #3
If you want to know what the missing piece is, make sure you come back tomorrow.