I have a great opportunity to meet Keith last month. Now, you are probably wondering who Keith is.
If you read “Rich Dad, Poop Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki before, Keith is the Rich Dad in the book.
Yes! He is the one that taught Robert Kiyosaki about financial literacy.
I had an awesome conversation with him and of course I took this great opportunity take some photos with him and his wife.
I learn a lot of things from him which then drove me to sign up for his coaching program and bought some of his material. I cost me a couple thousands of dollars but I think that it’s cheap compare to the fantastic amount of great information which may cost me millions of dollars if I were to learn it all by myself.
Okay, enough about me
One of the things that I learn from him personally is a technique to overcome your fear, which I’m going to share it here today. Although he used investing as an example, this technique is applicable for all kinds of fear in your life.
You can use this technique to eliminate the fear of public speaking, starting out a business, make an appointment, dating, literally anything!
This technique is so simple that anyone can do it. All you have to do is just to ask yourself
Continuously and come out with an answer.
Let me demonstrate it.
Let’s say I want to ask a girl out for a date but the question that’s playing in my head is, what if she says no.
Then, I’ll ask for the reason.
(Let’s say the reason is because she don’t feel like going out with me)
Then, I’ll ask some of her close friends why she feels that way and what kind of person she likes to hang out with (due diligence)
(Let’s assume that the reason is because she doesn’t like the smell of my cologne and my timid character)
Then, I’ll change the cologne or going out without cologne and change a little bit of my character.
Then, she’ll go out with me.
What if everything fails?
Probably we’re not meant to be together.
Find another girl that I resonate with. Maybe god wants to give me a better one. Who knows?
If you ask “Then what?” continuously, you’ll discover that most of the time, you don’t have to die by trying something new and you have nothing to lose.
Often times, we lose even more by not trying it.
Disclaimer: The above is just an example and it does not reflect my social life at all.
If you have a copy of mind movies, you can use it to eliminate your fear too by creating a mind movie that shows how brave you are in handling your life challenges. If you do not have it yet, get your mind movie software here.
Law of Attraction says that we attract what we think and feel. Imagine what you are attracting if you think and feel those stuffs that fears you. Better to nip the bud before it emerges into a big monster. Let me know what you think about this technique. I read every comment.