Comments on: How A Divorce Can Affect Your Children?

By: sell used textbooks

sell used textbooks — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 22:55:41 +0000

I know divorce can make things tough, but it can be harder to stay married if that is not where you are supposed to be

By: Marc @ Apres Divorce.fr

Marc @ Apres Divorce.fr — Wed, 19 Jan 2011 10:30:35 +0000

Thanks for sharing, it is also in tough times that one can rebuild a life and live it the way it wants. After all nothing is set in stone and the past does not equal the future.

To anyone going througha tough divorce, know that it will not last for and that time will comme for you to enjoy life again – you even decide to do it now !

By: raymond

raymond — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 02:54:25 +0000

Hi John,

Thanks for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear what had happened to you.

I’m sure that your new positive belief will begin to turn things around.

I’ll be here waiting for your good news.

By: John Aldridge

John Aldridge — Mon, 03 Mar 2008 00:06:21 +0000

Truthfully, I could write a book on what not to do in a divorce if you have children. My exwife of 11.2 years decided she was in love with another man. We have 3 boys together at the ages of 6, 11, 13. The younger two really do not understand what is going on. My oldest does. Let me put it in perspective. My exwife is trying to take me out, put the other guy in. Yeah, it sounds like she really does not know what she is doing and you are right. It has been a wreck ever since it has started. She put a protective order on me to get me out of her way to start with. I kicked the wall and in the State of Georgia that is means of violence against another person. So I ended up on the street with 3 pairs of clothes and a tooth brush. That is just the beginning. It is now a year later, my exwife told the judge that she had sex with this guy in court and I ended up paying her attorney and child support of 1,200 when I only bring home on the average of 2,000. This is Athens Clarke County Georgia. Another thing I found out. It is the only county in Georgia that turns away from adultry. So if you are in the market to commit adultry, you need to make sure you are in Athens, GA. I have never seen anything like this in my life. My exwife has turned my 3 boys upside down and she is still in control of the whole situation. My downfall? I had a terrible lawyer for my divorce case. The good news? I now have the best lawyer in Athens and my ex is trying to take me back to court to get more money. It is like the buck stops here for her now. I have not went to court yet but I can guaratee that it will be a different outcome now. So this is the deal, if you live in Athens, GA and you catch your spouse cheating on you, you better make the first move or you will be screwed like I was. I am now having to start from scratch but my ex is so into herself she cannot see what is coming. My lawyer has let me know that the future will be different but I have to work on it instead of getting it all at once like she did. I know that it has been horrible for my kids but they know that their dad is fighting for them everyday. I made a promise that I would not let them down. They are depending on me to keep my word. So in case you come up on these type of circumstance you need to be prepared and have a good lawyer unless you want to loose your kids. The problem with me is I don’t. I will fight until I have my children back. God speed to whomever has to go through this in life but remember the children should come first.

By: raymond

raymond — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 20:42:33 +0000

Hi Benjamin,

Thanks for sharing it.

Sometimes different people just have different perspective.

By: Benjamin

Benjamin — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:29:38 +0000

Great article, I found another one on the just mommies site which I ready quite often as well that talked about many of the similar problems. Some of it sounded like people should always stay together, but I think sometimes that just isnt the best option.