26 Comments so far

1. Robert A. Henru on June 3, 2008 3:29 pm

   Hi Raymond, it’s really an interesting article. I never thought of that.. one more interesting perspective from law of attraction. How do you get this inspiration???
   =)
   Robert

2. raymond on June 3, 2008 3:40 pm

   Hi Robert,

   I’m glad that you find it useful.

   I have forgotten where I got this idea from. Perhaps was inspired by the audio I listened to or the ebooks I have read. (either one).

3. Top Rated on June 3, 2008 11:41 pm

   I’ve made that mistake a few times. Sometimes, you just have to know when to quit (let go). That’s usually when it’s time to move on to the next set of goals.

4. raymond on June 4, 2008 1:25 am

   Hi Top Rated,

   I made a lot of that mistakes too when I first started out.

5. Hai Liang on June 4, 2008 2:24 am

   Hi Raymond,

   So the trick is not to visualise your goals but visualise your life already achieving your goals and living it?

   Rgds,
   Hai Liang

6. raymond on June 4, 2008 2:28 am

   Exactly, Hai Liang.

7. john on June 4, 2008 5:24 am

   Hi Raymond,

   I totally agree. Sometimes we get fixated on the process instead of the final goal. So that when we encounter a hiccup along the way we can think of that as a negative instead of realising it is just part of the journey that will take us to our final goal.

   Cheers,
   John Edwards

8. Spiritual Life Coach Lily On Earth on June 4, 2008 9:12 am

   Dear Raymond and Law Of Attraction Friends,

   Indeed this is one of the most difficult aspects to master, when it comes to attract your desires. But so decisive to succeed! You are absolutely right! Thank you for bringing this up!

   Unfortunately is it not enough to understand this important fact. You need to learn how to, and then practice this ability.

   Fortunately, as soon as you get it, it is easy!

   I Love You! Be Well! Everything you desire is already yours!

9. Attraction Guy on June 4, 2008 9:38 am

   Ya. That’s true. In fact, I heard of this the first time from Joe Vitale. Next, Abraham Hicks share it in her book.

   Sometimes I call this the vibration of lack. When we are attached to something, we will have fear and worries why are we not getting it yet. We will also complain about the law of attraction, ourselves, the universe and other people. All these negative thoughts create the vibration of lack and attract the OPPOSITE.

10. raymond on June 4, 2008 9:58 am

    Hi Attraction Guy,

    In “The Secret” movie, John Assaraf actually said that he had forgotten about the dream house he had been visualised and when he found that out, he was totally blown away.

11. raymond on June 4, 2008 10:00 am

    Hi Lily on Earth,

    Everything is hard when we do it for the first few times. I hope you’ll master it soon.

    And I love you too.

12. Schiffsbeteiligungen on June 4, 2008 11:58 am

    Hey dudes,

    money is not everything. You can be damn rich, but damn sad, too. Money is just a little part of the whole life. Have fun and enjoy, what you got. Thats my point of view from Germany .

    Greetz
    Mark

13. raymond on June 4, 2008 3:39 pm

    Hey Mark,

    Why want to choose when you can have both.

14. Schiffsbeteiligungen on June 4, 2008 4:33 pm

    Raymond,

    I think nobody wants to choose when he can have both. If you cant have both take the fun instead of the work. What do you think?

    Mark

15. raymond on June 4, 2008 4:39 pm

    Hi Mark,

    At the conscious level, you are right.

    Everything can be made possible with the Law of Attraction.

16. Hai Liang on June 5, 2008 2:19 am

    Thanks Raymond. This article really jolted me to reflect on how I was doing my visualisation…I’m doing some parts wrongly! Need to adjust and refocus…no wonder I can’t achieve my goals becoz I’m visualising it as a goals.

    Need to come back and change by visualising my life living the goals I set and had achieved.

17. raymond on June 5, 2008 2:55 am

    Hi Hai Liang,

    Well, at least you have taken your action. Now it’s time to make some little tweak with it.

    All the best!

18. mas on June 5, 2008 12:31 pm

    Thank you very much for this great info. I do not know about this. I only knew the visulize part, not the part
    “Believe that you already have it and no longer anticipate having it but you can always visualize that you already have it and experience it”

    Thank you again.

19. raymond on June 5, 2008 3:37 pm

    Glad that you’re learning something today, Mas.

    Knowledge is very important.

20. Nicole Price on June 5, 2008 4:05 pm

    That post title of yours totally reminded me of a song by Sting: “If you love someone, set them free”. God now that songs’ going to stay in my head all day and night! But good post there.

21. raymond on June 6, 2008 12:24 am

    Thanks Nicole, for the comment.

22. Land Projects UK on June 6, 2008 2:41 am

    Thanks for that great article Raymond. Letting go at first is really hard and it may break you down. We should always bear in mind that everything ends, nothing is permanent in this world.

23. raymond on June 6, 2008 3:18 am

    Hi Land Project UK,

    Practice make perfect.

    Nothing is forever. Everything is changing constantly.

24. mike Letting on June 16, 2008 1:20 pm

    Thanks Ray. It makes me question the rat-race we’re all (perceive we’re all) caught up in.

25. raymond on June 16, 2008 2:52 pm

    Hi Mike,

    Mind to elaborate more?

    Are you referring to the financial rat-race?

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