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The First Sign of Victim – Justifying

February 23, 2008 | 2 Comments

First of all, I would like to clarify that this post is related to some previous post. If you have not read them, I suggest you read them first. Here’s the links:

Are Playing The Role of A Victim?

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3 Deadly Signs That Shows You Are A Victim

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When you find yourself still not yet successful, analyze yourself and see if you are justifying or rationalizing situations.

Justifying means you try to find some logical reasons to fit yourself in where you are. I’ll give you some examples, shortly.

I have a friend who wants a luxury sports car so badly and he told most of the people he met about his dream car. Well, it’s good to have a dream.

Few years later, we met again and after some chat with him, I ask him about his dream car and he said that he doesn’t really like the sports car he mentioned.

Out of my curiosity, I ask him why and the reason he gave me was it is easier to park a smaller car than a luxury sports car.

The reason he gave sounds logic to me but he is playing the role of victim all the while.

I know that this friend didn’t do very well in his business and maybe this has made him feel fear of his dream and as a result, he try to fit himself in his current situation because it is more comfortable to live his life that way.

Let’s get back to the Law of Attraction. free anaconda 3 the offspring

If you feel comfortable with your current situation and dare not to dream for more, you will keep on getting the same thing.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to say that you should not be grateful to what you already have but what I’m trying to say is that you still need to feel grateful and at the same time, aim for more. homo erectus aka national lampoon s stoned age movie

In this case, my friend is trying to create a negative association to own his dream car (harder to park)

If you are helping 2000 people this year, be grateful and be happy for your achievement. At the same time set a goal to help more people next year (maybe 20,000 or more). You get my point, right?

Do you fall into this trap? Share it with me and at the same time use the Law of Attraction

to attract some solution for you. It may be some of the readers over here sharing a few great tips with you. I’m all “eyes”






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    1. Dining Room Tables on February 23, 2008 1:39 pm

      You are bang on Raymond, playing the victim, or giving excuses for giving up what you want to attract to yourself, is self defeating.

      you bet that it is possible to prove that if you want something bad enough, it comes to you.

    2. raymond on February 24, 2008 1:34 pm

      Hi Dining Room Tables,

      I absolutely agree with you!

      It’s not just about “want something”, it’s also about finding the right feeling that causes you a lot of exciting sleepless night thinking of owning the things that you want. :)

      I’m sure that you can relate the excitement that I feel. ;)

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