Today, I’m going to answer the question I asked yesterday. If you have not read the story of the 3 scoops of ice-cream, you can read it here.
Here’s the question again
“Will you buy it for her? Why?”
Personally, I would not buy it (the 3 scoops ice-cream) for her. Obviously, money is not a big issue here but it’s rather the matter of the objective or the goal.
The objective I buy the ice-cream for her is to make her happy and seeing her feeling happy will make me happy too.
If she can’t handle a single scoop of ice-cream, I doubt that she can handle a 3-scoops-ice-cream. There’s a high possibility that the 3 scoops of ice-cream will fall on the ground again.
That will make the situation worse and by the end of the day, I would not achieve my goal, which is to make her happy.
What the story teach me about the Law of Attraction?
We are all like the little girl. We often ask for what we want or desire but often time, we fail to see the result. Why? One of the reasons the universe (or God) does not materialize our dreams is because we fail to handle those little success that we achieve daily.
Let me show you an example. If you do not know how to handle $100,000 properly, why on earth the universe would want to give you the $1,000,000 you asked for.
Wouldn’t that makes you more frustrated and sad? You bet!
So, in order to achieve some big goals, you must first show the universe that you can handle the small and medium successes. I would recommend you to create your success journal.
Get a book and label it as your success journal. Write down at least 5 successes you achieve DAILY! The size of the success does not matter. It could be you accomplish some task that you have procrastinated for a long time, help your spouse with the dish, wash your car … etc.
This method will help you to acknowledge your success and when you begin to see your successes (able to handle your success), the universe will let you taste more, better and bigger successes.
Besides, it will motivate you to achieve more in your life.