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1. vijay on November 14, 2009 1:11 pm

   It was a bit difficult for me to grasp your way of expressing the whole thing but the core concept was understood by me after i read in a book a very simple line.
   WHAT YOU FEEL IS WHAT YOU GET.
   From that i would say is that if i feel hatred for someone, i invite hatred to myself.
   As far as not hating or getting angry with someone, Oh God…its so difficult but it starts getting easier as we keep putting up with it. Maybe once the hatred and anger for someone goes Love would automatically fill in.
   To everyone’s happiness.

2. Bratwurst Recipes on November 15, 2009 11:43 pm

   Hey Raymond, this is really a Great Post!

   Yes I agree with you 100% when you said “we should stop hating and start loving.” If we are really good people we should be happy that good things happen even with bad people, and be thankful all the times of all good things that happen to us and focus in positive things.
   God want us to love one another:
   Here are some Bible verses on loving our enemies:
   A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another (John 13:34).

   “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse (Romans 12:14).”

   “But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you (Luke 6:27-28).”

   “We work hard with our own hands. When we are cursed, we bless; when we are persecuted, we endure it (1 Corinthians 4:12).”

3. raymond on November 16, 2009 6:45 pm

   Hi Bratwurst,

   Thanks for sharing the excerpt from the bible. They’re great!

4. raymond on November 16, 2009 6:46 pm

   Hi Vijay,

   True. We attract what we feel. And practice makes perfect.

5. PSP Go on November 16, 2009 8:49 pm

   I think that there are very few people in the world that you could class categorically as “bad”. Sure many people do bad things, but they are often a victim of circumstances that have made them that way. There are lots of thieves, criminals etc, but most people are not bad to their very core, but are reacting to external stimuli in a certain, albeit harmful and negative way.

6. Tim on November 17, 2009 6:48 am

   Hi Raymond, I like your blog cause with your advices you help me to unerstand and correct my life mistakes and problems. Thank you so so much!!!

7. raymond on November 17, 2009 7:39 am

   You’re right on the spot.

8. raymond on November 17, 2009 7:50 am

   Hi Tim,

   You’re very welcome.

9. Liposuction on November 18, 2009 1:08 am

   Your second advice very good by hating such people not a solution but our love may makes difference, Good Thought. But here i have another question and looking forward your next for that is “why-bad-things-happen-to-good-people” such situation also we seen often. expecting your thoughts….

10. ATV for Sale on November 19, 2009 3:15 pm

    While I don’t agree with your explanation, it is still interesting. Instead of worrying why bad people are having good luck, focus on your own issues. Worrying about other people like that will only bring you down. You can’t control what that person does. You can only control what you do.

11. raymond on November 19, 2009 8:10 pm

    Hi,

    Thanks for your question. I’ll share that in my coming post.

12. raymond on November 19, 2009 10:05 pm

    Hi Jeremy,

    I agree with you on this and this is related to what I wrote in my article above.

13. Lauri Niskasaari on November 23, 2009 10:48 am

    First, awesome post!
    Well, Isn`t it me and you who judges if person is good or bad?

    If I say someone is bad, it only tells I`m willing to judge..so it`s basically my problem.

    Take care,
    -Lauri

14. Briefcases on November 24, 2009 3:00 pm

    In a perfect world, good things would only happen to good people. Unfortunately, things don’t work that way. A lot of bad people become very successful and a lot of good people face extreme hardship. It’s just the random way the world works.

15. raymond on November 26, 2009 10:11 am

    Hi Jeremy,

    I disagree about the randomness. I strongly believe that the world is governed by its own laws.

    Anyway, I appreciate your sharing.

16. raymond on November 26, 2009 10:12 am

    Thanks for your point of view, Lauri

17. Used Tires on November 27, 2009 2:18 am

    I liked your analysis and the fact that you applied the law of physics into your explanations =D Great advice at the end too!

    Till then,

    Jean

18. raymond on November 27, 2009 2:32 am

    Thanks, Jean.

19. Acupuncture Tampa on November 30, 2009 1:36 am

    You are right, but how to stop hating and start loving this person who hurt us. I like this sentence You can only control what you do. Thanks.

20. raymond on November 30, 2009 4:09 am

    You’re welcome

21. Wedding Photographer Manchester on December 1, 2009 4:40 pm

    Interesting, From now on I will channel my energy on me lol. Great article I like you application of logic and science.

22. raymond on December 1, 2009 10:27 pm

    Hi Wedding,

    Thank you so much.

23. Hypnosis Florida on December 4, 2009 12:07 am

    Interesting. It’s really fact thing. I follow your advise. And stop hating and start loving to dislike person.

24. raymond on December 4, 2009 5:08 am

    Hi Hypnosis (please use your name next time),

    That’s a very smart move.

25. Lumineers Cost on December 5, 2009 3:46 pm

    A lot of people have this false misconception that if they play according to the rules and play nicely with everyone they wont\’ have problems. That is until someone comes and tramples all over you. You need to find a balance.

26. Drops on December 6, 2009 8:19 am

    Very well said. yes, things happen to people whether they are good or bad, it just happen.
    It is because in life, natural things happen as a result of everything that surrounds it. One comes after the other, no question to whom it will happen.

27. Online Muzik Dinle on December 8, 2009 5:05 am

    Hi,
    Thanks for sharing the excerpt from the bible. They’re great..

28. Sözlük on December 11, 2009 4:09 am

    human nature can be experienced in things.

29. Ben on December 11, 2009 7:36 am

    You hit it bullseye. It’s not really how good or bad we are. It’s what we do. I think we should always look on the positive side of life instead of thinking negatively and let’s spread love rather than hatred.

30. raymond on December 11, 2009 8:52 am

    Thanks for sharing, Ben

31. used bulldozers on January 5, 2010 8:24 am

    Do you really believe that there are bad and good people? Not only good and bad behavior? Because someone could think only the worse things and not doing them because he is too much of a coward. On the other hand there could be someone that could not temper his behavior and is easy to get angry – and kills someone. One of them did something, but other would like to do a lot of worse things… And I can’t say which one of them is better.

32. raymond on January 5, 2010 9:11 pm

    Hi Alicia,

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

33. oyunlar on February 14, 2010 7:56 pm

    Thank you for preparing this article. I learned a lot thanks to you

34. raymond on February 21, 2010 6:27 am

    You’re very welcome. It’s my pleasure to share this knowledge with you.

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